Stop Reacting. Start Leading.
Take our FREE 5 minute assessment to discover why you behave in ways you regret later (even though you're trying to change) —
Get your personalized roadmap to build emotional strength, communicate clearly in conflict, and lead yourself with presence.
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The Real Reason You Keep Reacting
You already know what you're doing wrong. Shutting down when you need to speak up. Exploding when you want to stay calm. Numbing out with work, alcohol, or porn instead of feeling. You've tried to change. You're working on it. But nothing sticks.
Here's why:
You're not operating from conscious choice. You're operating from an unconscious program patterns that was wired into you years ago. These patterns help you satisfy your 3 core Instincts - Security, Belonging & Passion.
"The thoughts & behaviors that once kept you safe are now the ones holding you back."
These programs run automatically — triggering your reactions before you even realize what's happening. And until you become aware of which program is running your life, you'll keep repeating the same cycles.
This free assessment reveals the which of the 3 core instincts is controlling your reactions:
Your Dominant Instinct
Where your energy flows on autopilot (and why you react the way you do)Your Blindspot Instinct
what you unconsciously neglect (and how it's sabotaging your relationships)How Your Instincts Show Up in Relationships
the patterns destroying your ability to communicate, stay present, and lead
Once you come face to face with the truth, your journey of transformation can actually begin...
From:-
❌ Reacting before you can think, regretting it hours later
❌ Shutting down when you need to speak up
❌ Numbing out because feeling is too hard
❌ Letting shame run your life from the shadows
❌ Watching your relationships suffer because you can't show up
To:-
✅ Staying calm under pressure, responding with clarity
✅ Speaking your truth with confidence and without apology
✅ Feeling deeply without being overwhelmed
✅ Releasing shame and stepping into integrity
✅ Building secure, healthy connections with people that have your back!
This isn't about becoming someone new.
It's about becoming who you already are — without the survival patterns blocking the way.
When you ascend, your family thrives. Your business thrives. Your life becomes what you always knew it could be.
About Jay
For over 12 years, I worked in HR leadership for large-scale companies, leading talent acquisition projects and managing teams. Despite the success, I hit a wall — a deep internal void that no external achievement could fill. That breakdown became my awakening.I rebuilt myself from the inside out using the same systems I now teach: the Enneagram and instinctual frameworks, NLP and Gestalt transformation systems, and somatic interventions.Over the last 5+ years, I've worked with 500+ clients across 11 countries — entrepreneurs, executives, fathers, mothers, and seekers — helping them overcome lifelong personality programs that limit their relationships, performance, and peace of mind.This assessment is built on a personality framework with a 50+ year research history, used by millions worldwide to understand unconscious patterns. Combined with modern neuroscience, somatic psychology, and behavioral change methodologies, this system has helped everyone from executives to military leaders to parents worldwide to transform how they show up under pressure.In guided work, clients report significant improvements in emotional regulation and relationship quality within 4-5 weeks. Many describe it as the first time they've understood why they've been stuck for years.
Get Your Free Assessment Report
Here's what happens next:
Start the assessment — Answer 40-45 rapid-fire questions (takes 3-5 minutes)
Get your personalized report — Receive your Dominant Instinct, Blindspot Pattern, and relationship insights (delivered to your email within 5 minutes)
Discover your next steps — Learn exactly what you can do to build emotional strength and transform your patterns
It's completely free. It takes 5 minutes. You get immediate insights.
but, if you're ready to go deeper...
Build Emotional Strength.
Become a Grounded Leader
The Free assessment shows you how your instincts impact your behavior. What comes next reveals:-
your whole personality program,
how to break it
and who you become when you do
What if...
The next time conflict arises with your partner, you don't shut down? You stay present. You say what you feel. You work through it together.
The next time your kids push your buttons, you don't snap? You take a breath. You respond calmly. You stay connected.
The next time stress hits, you don't numb out with work, alcohol, or screens? You regulate your nervous system. You feel it without being consumed by it.
This is what transformation actually looks like.
Not abstract concepts. Not theory. Real moments. Real change.
Join for $99 / month $17 / month and get:
Your Complete Assessment — The Full Report of your Personality Program that shows you your personal path to transformation and leading yourself during difficult times.
Weekly Live Coaching Calls with Jay — Learn to regulate in real-time, communicate in conflict, and lead with presence (with a community doing the same work)
Access to Community of Grounded Leaders who push you forward, hold you accountable, and have your back.
Here's what happens when you join:
Today: Get instant access to the community and your Full Personality Program Assessment.
This Week: Attend your first Live Integration Session and start implementing your personalized transformation practices.
Within 30 Days: Experience measurable shifts in how you respond to conflict, regulate your emotions, and show up in your relationships.
This is where you stop reading about change and start living it.
Real Results from Real people
This is for you if...
You're ready for real change (not just consume more content)
You want real-time support and accountability (not another course you'll never finish)
You're willing to put in the work to implement the tools of transformation.
This is NOT for you if you're looking for quick fixes or aren't ready to face what you've been avoiding.
Start now!
99$ / month
17$ / month
Risk free: If you don't experience measurable shifts within 30 days, we'll refund every penny - no questions asked.
"You have nothing to lose and everything to gain."
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